Definition of a female dog/ man’s best friend.
But I’m not talking about that best friend; it's that other woman I’m talking about. Everything about him made you smile. He took you to his only get away spot. The lake, the trees, and everything about it at that moment was perfect.
He opened up to you like your man should do. You want to be his confidant and his love partner. Most of all you want to be his best friend. Can your man have a female best friend besides you? Can he have phone conversations with this woman and help her out because he says that she has nobody else there?
There's nothing wrong with him meeting a woman and over time they have become great friends but the important factor to this is they use to date. Guessing from what he tells you it didn't work out between them. Honesty is the best policy and trusting your man is important. You’re not insecure your just trying to get to the bottom of the situation concerning your MANS BEST FRIEND.
Of course it could be awkward for that woman but most of all for his girl. Yes you’re not married but you know women. Some of us already have problems with moms that won't let their sons go so, to have to deal with another woman that is not even related to him and keeps him on his toes more than you is a problem right? I want to know men and women can he have a female best friend and guys same thing applies to you can she have a male best friend? Tell me what you think.
I think it's all about trust.If you dont trust your man around that female best friend it will always be a problem. Yes, I think it is possible for your man to have a female best friend but there are certain things he should consider. He must have respect for his girl and make her feel as comfortable as possible. Thats the only way it will work out.
ReplyDeleteA lot of experience will take into effect in order for a relationship that has a best friend involved to work. Many factors will have to be resolved, as Princess touched on, Trust is the key. In addition, being very open and up front about the extent of the friendship. But both parties in the relationship would have to be very understanding and secure with their mate.
ReplyDeleteYou already know that I have/had a guy best friend. For the both of us, there was never any more feelings than friendship and I know he told every girl he dated that. For the most part, the girls that I met knew what kind of friendship he and I shared. I did have one girl tell me that if I had feelings for him, she would back off. But to my knowledge none of his past ex's felt threatened or uncomfortable with me when I was around. They have even told me that they couldn't wait to me "Best Friend." They couldn't wait to meet this girl Mick talked about and when they finally did meet me, it made them happy. Granted I realize they were probably happy cause they could see for themselves that his and mine relationship was strictly platonic. I've made friends with the girls he introduced me too and have even remained friends with a few of them. But I guess that friendship is pretty much over as you very well know.
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