Sunday, May 22, 2011

IS IT STILL POSSIBLE?

IS IT STILL POSSIBLE

The other day I saw a friend of mine that works at Starbucks, she is so sweet bless her heart. My friend is about 63 years old and looks really good I might say.  Anyway, as she was clocking out there was a man sitting on those brown leather comfy couches that Starbucks provides to their customers. Well, he was waiting patiently watching observing but in a kind of I miss you way. Not stalking material at all, but just waiting for her to get off. Well, as she walked towards the door he got up to give her a hug and a kiss. Then she walked over to me and told me bye.
Then she stopped and said Toya I don't think you have met my husband. Of course she introduced me to him. Then my friend said to me with a kind hearted smile and asked, Toya guess how long I have been married to this man? I asked how long? He jumped with joy, not literally but he said 40 years. I said aww that is so sweet as I looked up to them. Then her husband said to me, SHE IS MY BEST FRIEND. Marriage is not dead, love is not dead. This column was random but it came from the heart. This Column is for all of my men and women whether you’re in a relationship or single. Love is not dead its real and it's out there and it will find you just be patient. The answer to that question is YES IT IS POSSIBLE!!!

Saturday, May 7, 2011

MANS BEST FRIEND

                                          
Definition of a female dog/ man’s best friend.

But I’m not talking about that best friend; it's that other woman I’m talking about. Everything about him made you smile. He took you to his only get away spot. The lake, the trees, and everything about it at that moment was perfect.

He opened up to you like your man should do. You want to be his confidant and his love partner. Most of all you want to be his best friend. Can your man have a female best friend besides you?  Can he have phone conversations with this woman and help her out because he says that she has nobody else there?
There's nothing wrong with him meeting a woman and over time they have become great friends but the important factor to this is they use to date. Guessing from what he tells you it didn't work out between them. Honesty is the best policy and trusting your man is important. You’re not insecure your just trying to get to the bottom of the situation concerning your MANS BEST FRIEND.
Of course it could be awkward for that woman but most of all for his girl. Yes you’re not married but you know women. Some of us already have problems with moms that won't let their sons go so, to have to deal with another woman that is not even related to him and keeps him on his toes more than you is a problem right? I want to know men and women can he have a female best friend and guys same thing applies to you can she have a male best friend? Tell me what you think.