How Do You Know

                                                                HOW DO YOU KNOW?
He tells you that he loves your moles, even the ones he hasn’t discovered as of yet.  He loves your chill bumps on your skin when you get cold. He tells you that he is not perfect. How do you know?
When you finally meet that guy that you and your friends discuss is your dream man over dinner or a girls night out, what do you do when he is standing right in front of you? How do you know? You ask yourself is he this sweet and does he tell you all of this because he is just lame or trying to play you? Or could he be on the down low? How do you know?  When the man that stands in front of you tells you that he wants to make a life with you and he knows that you have been hurt before and that you fired all of the other men in your life and this is one job he does not want to lose. How do you know? Just when it seems like it’s the right time that he has come into your life you make excuses and tell yourself that it’s a bad thing when you know it’s not.  When you are waiting for this man to make a mistake so you can feel better and decide to finally open up, how do you know? You’re so use to getting hurt and messed around on that this man can give you so many compliments you think something is wrong. He is strong, smart, caring, a family man and no drama. He wants to be there for you. He is a man in so many ways from him building his way from nothing to an important person. How Do You Know?
Ladies and gentlemen this is a very special column for me. I would like for you to reply to this column. Are you that women now or ever been or even that man? because it happens to all of us. Tell me How Do You Know?

 

 

Thank You

I just want to thank everyone that supported me by coming on my blog, reading it and posting your comments. I loved every ones response you all had a valid point. Please feel free to let your friends and family know about it, so that they are able to comment as well. CERTA Thinking is a blog that takes negative topics and turns them into positive outcomes. Enjoy the topics that are brought to your attention and feel free to post on the wall or in my mailbox, so that I can share your thoughts with other bloggers. I hope you enjoy the topics and I look forward to reading your responses!