BREACH OF CONTRACT

BREACH OF CONTRACT

If you decide that you aren’t ready for a relationship but you have physical needs that need to be fulfilled. That’s an unemotional contract.  An UN emotional contract, an agreement between two parties with mutual physical obligations that can’t be broken. This means no emotions should be involved, no jealousy, no love, no snuggling, and no feelings that aren’t physical. Have you ever had a sign of any of these?

Its 2011 and most women don’t have the patience for dating, arguments, or those funny feelings you get when you start to have feelings for him.  The other reason is we are just too busy, well at least that’s what we tell ourselves. Who wouldn’t want that guy that you have been friends with through good and bad, the guy that you can be yourself around any time, the one you can talk to about anything and everything. You’re totally honest with each other and you fulfill both of your physical needs with no strings attached. It’s just plain fun.

We all know that when dating sometimes it’s a toss of a coin if this guy or girl is really going to be the same person through the whole dating process and a real relationship if that happens. When you have that unemotional contract you have a mutual agreement that both of you agreed to. The rules are your both free to meet and date other people and the number one rule is there can’t be any emotional attachment between the two with contracts. We live in a microwave society when everything happens quickly. I believe that when you do sign up for the unemotional contract a breach of contract ends up appearing. Emotions are never planned, but they can taint this contract. This “friend” is the one you can be honest with and have fun at the same time, so why wouldn’t feelings come about remember you’re only human.

What do you do when that contract has been breached? What do you do when the contract is broken by you or the other party? You get jealous when you see him out at dinner with other women or he sees you flirting with a guy at an event you both attended. The rules are broken now and what was so sweet is becoming sour. Do you tell him how you feel and let go and let love, or do you stay binded to that unemotional contract?

Have any of you ever signed up for an unemotional contract? Have you ever had a friend with benefit situation that has turned into something with substance? Let me know.