Why Can’t Successful Black Women Find A Man?
I make more money than he does, he’s intimidated by me and my money comes first and love comes second. Growing up as a little girl I was always taught not to have a baby till your married, go to college and get a good job first. When you’re a black girl or a black woman you try your hardest not to be a statistic and to be successful. Now, every little girl is not told that! I don’t believe that’s the reason why black women can’t find a man but it can be a factor. Just like those false statements, most women and men would say that in a partnership/relationship that her making more than him is a problem but it shouldn’t be. A relationship is a partnership and both individuals should be treated equally despite how much more she makes than him. In my opinion, I don’t believe that most men are intimidated by black women. When you meet a woman that has her head on right and is making six figures, I say be yourself and don’t let that bother you. Some women believe putting love first will only slow them down but it’s ultimately her choice if she wants to put it second. A good or bad relationship is what you make it just like everything else in life. If you fall in love & forget about your career it’s no one’s fault. It’s just life.
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