These is a awesome topic because we are afraid of topics like this one. My opinion is that I believe teaching has to start in the homes. Some homes have fighting or disfunctional problems. Maybe your mom has 2 jobs and dad is not around. So now you watch your mom struggle and you say to yourself you never want to be like that ever no matter what. So we go through life as black women with broken hearts before we even know we are going to meet the guy for us. Maybe you will maybe you want. But the women who said they will never struggle works go getters and work from day in and day out. Now when they meet someone they dont give them they all are they have that broken heart in the relationship. We dont understand how men work we think we do but we really dont. We dont try to know either we have a LIST of unrealistic things we want him to be. If he is not none of those things we loose interests and he know before you. Men say we keep everything and we say Men forget a lot. I have to come in and say men dont forget the hurt full things that we do also. So when the little start changing and it becomes big change he is gone. Once you lost a man it is hard to get him back. So also you may attract men thats not good because you have some issue of your own. We need to stop trying to help men who dont want help. We will find our self unhappy, insecure, jealous, and always broken and down. Yes successful Black Women can find a man if we learn men and how they think and Im not saying all men are good but you have to out way the Good with the Bad. Meaning your man may not every congratulate you or cook for you or talk to you on how he feel. But he sayI get that baby or do you need anything or before you do that you need to research that first or I love you just because. The little things count. See right there gives of confirmation in our relationship because if you are with someone who dont completely care about you he will not care 1 cent about you. Ladies money dont matter because when its all gone who will you have each other. I can go on and on but Yes I Believe Successful Black Women Can Find A Man And Be Happy..~Tanesha Lawrence~
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ReplyDeleteThese is a awesome topic because we are afraid of topics like this one. My opinion is that I believe teaching has to start in the homes. Some homes have fighting or disfunctional problems. Maybe your mom has 2 jobs and dad is not around. So now you watch your mom struggle and you say to yourself you never want to be like that ever no matter what. So we go through life as black women with broken hearts before we even know we are going to meet the guy for us. Maybe you will maybe you want. But the women who said they will never struggle works go getters and work from day in and day out. Now when they meet someone they dont give them they all are they have that broken heart in the relationship. We dont understand how men work we think we do but we really dont. We dont try to know either we have a LIST of unrealistic things we want him to be. If he is not none of those things we loose interests and he know before you. Men say we keep everything and we say Men forget a lot. I have to come in and say men dont forget the hurt full things that we do also. So when the little start changing and it becomes big change he is gone. Once you lost a man it is hard to get him back. So also you may attract men thats not good because you have some issue of your own. We need to stop trying to help men who dont want help. We will find our self unhappy, insecure, jealous, and always broken and down. Yes successful Black Women can find a man if we learn men and how they think and Im not saying all men are good but you have to out way the Good with the Bad. Meaning your man may not every congratulate you or cook for you or talk to you on how he feel. But he sayI get that baby or do you need anything or before you do that you need to research that first or I love you just because. The little things count. See right there gives of confirmation in our relationship because if you are with someone who dont completely care about you he will not care 1 cent about you. Ladies money dont matter because when its all gone who will you have each other. I can go on and on but Yes I Believe Successful Black Women Can Find A Man And Be Happy..~Tanesha Lawrence~
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